Thursday, October 29, 2020

DID GOD RIDE THE BROOKLYN SUBWAY

DID GOD RIDE THE BROOKLYN SUBWAY



Marcel Sternberger was a methodical man of nearly 50, with bushy white hair, guileless brown eyes, and the bouncing enthusiasm of a czardas dancer of his native Hungary. He always took the 9:09 Long Island Railroad train from his suburban home to Woodside, N.Y.., where he caught a subway into the city.
On the morning of January 10, 1948, Sternberger boarded the 9:09 as usual. En route, he suddenly decided to visit Laszlo Victor, a Hungarian friend who lived in Brooklyn and was ill.
Accordingly, at Ozone Park, Sternberger changed to the subway for Brooklyn, went to his friend’s house, and stayed until midafternoon. He then boarded a Manhattan-bound subway for his Fifth Avenue office. Here is Marcel’s incredible story:
The car was crowded, and there seemed to be no chance of a seat. But just as I entered, a man sitting by the door suddenly jumped up to leave, and I slipped into the empty place. I’ve been living in New York long enough not to start conversations with strangers. But being a photographer, I have the peculiar habit of analyzing people’s faces, and I was struck by the features of the passenger on my left. He was probably in his late 30s, and when he glanced up, his eyes seemed to have a hurt expression in them. He was reading a Hungarian-language newspaper, and something prompted me to say in Hungarian, “I hope you don’t mind if I glance at your paper.”
The man seemed surprised to be addressed in his native language. But he answered politely, “You may read it now. I’ll have time later on.”
During the half-hour ride to town, we had quite a conversation. He said his name was Bela Paskin. A law student when World War II started, he had been put into a German labor battalion and sent to the Ukraine. Later he was captured by the Russians and put to work burying the German dead. After the war, he covered hundreds of miles on foot until he reached his home in Debrecen, a large city in eastern Hungary.
I myself knew Debrecen quite well, and we talked about it for a while. Then he told me the rest of his story. When he went to the apartment once occupied by his father, mother, brothers and sisters, he found strangers living there. Then he went upstairs to the apartment that he and his wife once had. It also was occupied by strangers. None of them had ever heard of his family.
As he was leaving, full of sadness, a boy ran after him, calling “Paskin bacsi! Paskin bacsi!” That means “Uncle Paskin.” The child was the son of some old neighbors of his. He went to the boy’s home and talked to his parents. “Your whole family is dead,” they told him. “The Nazis took them and your wife to Auschwitz.”
Auschwitz was one of the worst Nazi concentration camps. Paskin gave up all hope. A few days later, too heartsick to remain any longer in Hungary, he set out again on foot, stealing across border after border until he reached Paris. He managed to immigrate to the United States in October 1947, just three months before I met him.
All the time he had been talking, I kept thinking that somehow his story seemed familiar. A young woman whom I had met recently at the home of friends had also been from Debrecen; she had been sent to Auschwitz; from there she had been transferred to work in a German munitions factory. Her relatives had been killed in the gas chambers. Later she was liberated by the Americans and was brought here in the first boatload of displaced persons in 1946.
Her story had moved me so much that I had written down her address and phone number, intending to invite her to meet my family and thus help relieve the terrible emptiness in her life.
It seemed impossible that there could be any connection between these two people, but as I neared my station, I fumbled anxiously in my address book. I asked in what I hoped was a casual voice, “Was your wife’s name Marya?”
He turned pale. “Yes!” he answered. “How did you know?”
He looked as if he were about to faint.
I said, “Let’s get off the train.” I took him by the arm at the next station and led him to a phone booth. He stood there like a man in a trance while I dialed her phone number.
It seemed hours before Marya Paskin answered. (Later I learned her room was alongside the telephone, but she was in the habit of never answering it because she had so few friends and the calls were always for someone else. This time, however, there was no one else at home and, after letting it ring for a while, she responded.)
When I heard her voice at last, I told her who I was and asked her to describe her husband. She seemed surprised at the question, but gave me a description. Then I asked her where she had lived in Debrecen, and she told me the address.
Asking her to hold the line, I turned to Paskin and said, “Did you and your wife live on such-and-such a street?”
“Yes!” Bela exclaimed. He was white as a sheet and trembling.
“Try to be calm,” I urged him. “Something miraculous is about to happen to you. Here, take this telephone and talk to your wife!”
He nodded his head in mute bewilderment, his eyes bright with tears. He took the receiver, listened a moment to his wife’s voice, then suddenly cried, “This is Bela! This is Bela!” and he began to mumble hysterically. Seeing that the poor fellow was so excited he couldn’t talk coherently, I took the receiver from his shaking hands.
“Stay where you are,” I told Marya, who also sounded hysterical. “I am sending your husband to you. We will be there in a few minutes.”
Bela was crying like a baby and saying over and over again. “It is my wife. I go to my wife!”
At first I thought I had better accompany Paskin, lest the man should faint from excitement, but I decided that this was a moment in which no strangers should intrude. Putting Paskin into a taxicab, I directed the driver to take him to Marya’s address, paid the fare, and said goodbye.
Bela Paskin’s reunion with his wife was a moment so poignant, so electric with suddenly released emotion, that afterward neither he nor Marya could recall much about it.
“I remember only that when I left the phone, I walked to the mirror like in a dream to see if maybe my hair had turned gray,” she said later. “The next thing I know, a taxi stops in front of the house, and it is my husband who comes toward me. Details I cannot remember; only this I know—that I was happy for the first time in many years.....
“Even now it is difficult to believe that it happened. We have both suffered so much; I have almost lost the capability to not be afraid. Each time my husband goes from the house, I say to myself, “Will anything happen to take him from me again?”
Her husband is confident that no horrible misfortune will ever again befall the. “Providence has brought us together,” he says simply. “It was meant to be.”
Skeptical persons will no doubt attribute the events of that memorable afternoon to mere chance. But was it chance that made Marcel Sternberger suddenly decide to visit his sick friend and hence take a subway line that he had never ridden before? Was it chance that caused the man sitting by the door of the car to rush out just as Sternberger came in? Was it chance that caused Bela Paskin to be sitting beside Sternberger, reading a Hungarian newspaper'
Was it chance—or did God ride the Brooklyn subway that afternoon'
Paul Deutschman, Great Stories Remembered, edited and compiled by Joe L. Wheeler

Thursday, June 04, 2020

Shul (Synagoge) vs Bar

His phone rang in shul by accident during prayers.

The rabbi scolded him.

After prayers, the congregants admonished him for interrupting.

His friends kept lecturing him on his carelessness.

You could see the shame, embarrassment and humiliation on his face.

He never stepped foot in the shul again.

That evening, he went to a bar.

He was still nervous and trembling.

He spilled his drink on the table and the bottle accidentally fell, splashing some of the patrons. 

Those it touched rushed towards him. He closed his eyes, expecting harsh words or even slaps. 

Instead, they cared to know if he didn’t get a cut from the broken bottle. 

The waiter apologized and gave him a napkin to clean himself.

The janitor mopped the floor.

The manager offered him a complimentary drink, with the words, "Don't worry, man. Who doesn't make mistakes?"

He has not stopped going to that bar since then.

Sometimes, our faulty and misguided attitudes as religious observers drive others' souls downwards.

We can make a difference by how we treat people, especially when they make mistakes.

IF we cannot be a bridge to connect people, then let's not not be a wall to separate them. 

IF we cannot be a light to brighten people's good deeds, then let's not be the darkness that covers their efforts. 

IF we cannot be water to help people's crops sprout, then let's not be a pest destroying their crops. 

IF we cannot be a vaccine to give life, then let's not be a virus to terminate it.

IF we cannot be a pencil to write anyone's happiness, then let's be the eraser that removes their sadness.

We can always be each others' keepers. Let us resolve to heal the world and make it a better place. Yes, we can.

INSPIRE SOMEONE TODAY.

Monday, May 18, 2020

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Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Our Wedding



Please join us via live feed on 
Thursday, June 4, 2020 
starting at 2pm


May we always share Simchas together with the ultimate Simcha, 
the Third Beis Hamikdosh right NOW! 


Leah & Moshe


Friday, May 08, 2020

Engagement of Moshe Hackner & Leah Nemon


Mazal Tov! Mazal Tov!
to Moshe Hackner (Crown Heights/London)
and Leah Nemon (Monsey/Crown Heights)
on the occasion of their engagement.

Our wedding registry can be found at:
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The Wedding, live YouTube, will be available by clicking here https://bit.ly/hacknerwedding (Zoom may also be available...)

IYH it will be in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, on Thursday, June 4, 2020 (12 Sivan, 5780)

Mark your calendars and check back here for the link. (or WhatsApp/text me)

Kabolas Ponim, Chuppah & Seudas Chasunah will be subject to Social Distancing and at a private location 😍

Details to follow... Stay tuned...

Zoom Lchaim Sunday, May 10, 2020 at 3pm EST

Friday, April 17, 2020

R’ Benzion Eliezer Hackner, 81, OBM

R’ Benzion Eliezer Hackner, a community activist and Gabbai of the Stamford Hill Shul in London, passed away on Monday, April 6, 2020. 
R’ Benzion Eliezer Hackner, a community activist and Gabbai of the Stamford Hill Shul in London, passed away this morning, 12 Nissan, 5780, (April 6, 2020) after a short illness.
He was 81.
When WWII ended, he was from the first children to be enrolled by his parents R’ Shmaryohu O”H and Mrs. Leah O”H in the Yesodey Hatorah Talmud Torah in London while most others were attending public school, and only went to Cheder for a couple of hours in the afternoon.

As a Bochur he was from the organizers of Camp Aguda and the midwinter Siyum Mishnayos of Pirchei.
In the early 1960’s he was heavily involved with the establishment and legalities of many of the projects of Lubavitch London at the time that they were building themselves up and knew who to call and how to negotiate the officials and how to get things resolved.
He was the Lubavitch representative to the Hisachdus Hachareidim of the Greater London Community.
He was also a staunch pivotal member of the Lubavitch and general London community.
He spent many nights working the Shidur, the live hookup, for the Rebbe’s Sichos and Farbrengens in London, for the whole UK, Europe, Eretz Yisroel, South America and Australia, that enabled Chassidim and Shluchim to be connected and hear the Rebbe live.
He was also in charge of collecting Maamad from the Chassidim in London to be sent to the Rebbe.
He was a long-standing Gabbay of the Lubavitch Stamford Hill Shul.
Since the Rebbe instituted the daily learning of Rambam, he has continuously given a daily shiur of the Rambam, as well as an Ein Yaakov shiur between Mincha and Maariv.
Was also the Gabbay Tzedakah for many Organizations.
As well as the administrator for the Chuppas that took place in the Lubavitch community of London as well as helped many people all over the world.
R’ Benzion was the heart of Beis Lubavitch in London, and was involved in many other community affairs, many of which are not known.
He is survived by his devoted wife Mrs. Shoshana Hackner (London, England), his children; Mrs. Miriam Edelman (Brunoy, France), Mrs. Soroh Eidelman (Manchester, England), Mrs. Yocheved Zirkind (Weston, Florida), Moshe Hackner (Crown Heights), Rabbi Chaim Hackner (Boca Raton, Florida) as well as many grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
He is also survived by his brother R’ Yonason Hackner (Crown Heights).

The Levayoh will be passing Lubavitch House at approximately 4:25 PM then at the house @ 29 Leabourne Road
The family have requested that you send nichum aveilim or memories of him, to email nichumaveilimhackner@gmail.com
Baruch Dayan Ha’emes. Blessed is the true judge.

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Wednesday, April 01, 2020

What It Takes to Get Life-Changing Wealth

Dan Caplinger March 31, 2020  Mindset , Commentary

In hindsight, making money in the stock market seems easy. Just buy shares of promising companies, wait for them to achieve their full potential, and reap the rewards from their huge returns. Look at some of Stock Advisor's top performers over time — stocks like Netflix (NASDAQ: NFLX), Amazon.com (NASDAQ: AMZN), and Booking Holdings (NASDAQ: BKNG) — and that strategy seems to play out like clockwork.
It's easy to forget during long bull markets that there's more to successful investing than just waiting. Only in the midst of bear markets do we tend to remember the hardest part of staying on the path toward life-changing wealth: maintaining a disciplined strategy and staying confident in the companies that we've correctly seen as having the potential for greatness. All too often, investors lose their resolve — and that costs them dearly in the long run.

You want to avoid losses...

No matter how good your intentions are to keep a long-term perspective, it's human nature to judge yourself based on what happens in short periods of time. If you buy stock in a great company but the share price goes down right after you buy it, then you start to question your thought process for picking it in the first place. If it keeps going down, then the desire to sell it and take your losses can become almost overwhelming — even if absolutely nothing has changed about the underlying business and its prospects for success.
Facebook (NASDAQ: FB) is a great example of how this phenomenon can snare investors. Stock Advisor didn't recommend Facebook until years after its 2012 IPO, but those who bought stock in the social media giant back then saw the share price lose half its value within months after its initial public offering. Critics pronounced that those touting Facebook's prospects were fundamentally mistaken, and many disgruntled shareholders dumped their stock at what proved to be exactly the worst time. In the end, those initial investors did better than those who waited until Stock Advisor made its recommendation at a price double what you could've paid in the IPO.

...but you want to hold onto your gains even more

It's tough to watch a promising pick be a quick loser, but many investors find it even harder to keep their discipline on stocks that have already demonstrated their winning ways. When you've already earned impressive gains on a stock, having them taken away even temporarily can be especially painful. We've all seen during the coronavirus-driven bear market in February and March how years of steady stock price gains can disappear more quickly than you'd ever imagine. It's easy to beat yourself up for failing to see signs of risk that cost you much or all of the profit you'd had in your stock positions.
Moreover, the reasons to sell can seem quite compelling. Consider:

Shortly after our initial recommendation of Netflix in October 2004, the stock lost half its value as investors worried about competitors like Blockbuster Video trying to copy its DVD-by-mail service. Yet far more difficult to endure was the 80% drawdown in late 2011 and 2012. That's when CEO Reed Hastings and Netflix's Qwikster debacle led to hundreds of thousands of subscriber defections and made many investors forget the promise of international expansion, new proprietary content, and advances in streaming capacity and bandwidth.

Regulatory threats, competitive pressures, and a simple lack of faith in Amazon's long-term growth prospects have led to regular declines of 25% to 30% every year or two in the e-commerce giant's stock price. More dramatic drops of 50% in 2007 and 60% in the financial crisis stemmed from adverse market conditions and less of a willingness to accept CEO Jeff Bezos' philosophy of maximizing long-term growth at the expense of short-term profits. With many companies having failed during the credit crunch in 2008 and 2009 because of their failure to seek profitability more quickly, that reason for giving up on Amazon seemed even more compelling at the time than it does looking back.

For Booking Holdings, consistent doubts about competition and the state of the online travel industry have forced shareholders on multiple occasions to deal with pullbacks of 30% or more. Other than the Great Recession, the most jarring decline for Booking Holdings has come just in the past month, with shares having dropped more than 40% as investors weigh the likelihood for massive disruptions throughout the travel industry to last at least months and possibly a year or more into the future.

At the time when these stocks were struggling, few people would have faulted you for deciding to take some of your profits off the table. Long-time members who'd followed Stock Advisor recommendations since the service's inception could have sold their initial Netflix shares in late 2011 and still have earned a return of around 300% to 500%. You could've gotten a 2,000% return on Amazon selling in late 2014, or a 1,500% gain on Booking Holdings from a 2011 sale.
Yet doing so would've cost you a huge amount of additional gains that those who remained confident in the ability of those companies to bounce back from adversity and produce even bigger returns. You wouldn't be sitting on a 15,000% gain in the video-streaming specialist, a 12,000% rise in the e-commerce and cloud computing behemoth, or a nearly 5,400% advance in the online travel website leader.

Remember what you're investing for

At its most basic level, the purpose of investing is taking money you don't need now and making it grow until the time you do need it. From that perspective, as long as nothing important changes about a company's business or prospects, then there's no need to think about selling it until you approach your time horizon.
That's easier said than done. When stock prices are zigging and zagging violently, that kind of simple perspective is hard to achieve. The best investors, though, remain objective about the prospects great companies have to continue to succeed even in tough environments along the way. If you can keep that perspective and maintain your discipline, you'll be much more likely to join the ranks of those top investors.


All advice is based on information not confirmed. You are advised to consult with your professional advisor before using any information in this post.

Thursday, January 02, 2020

How do you define a good deal?

If you see an item you don't need and didn't really want, but you buy it because you think it's actually worth more than the price, you're still wasting money.
When it's on sale from $100 and you don't buy it, you've saved the full amount of Money, you didn't spend on it!